I Hate Cheaters

I've never cheated on anyone and never had anyone cheat on me. I've always been taught that it's better to break up than to cheat on someone. People often make excuses and say, "Oh, he or she seduced me." But, it was still your choice to leave or stay. It was your fault, not the person who seduced you. You still had a choice and you made that choice. It's like saying, "Oh, that cake seduced me, I just had to eat it." Or, "Those potato chips seduced me, I just had to eat some." You had a choice to resist temptation and you chose not to. It's like people want to blame other people for their mistakes.

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4meAndyou · F

I am extremely prejudiced against cheaters, so I'll say that right up front. Have your cake and eat it too sorts of men, and women who are so desperate for attention they will wreck a home and take a father out of a child's life....to me, they're the lowest sorts.

SW-User

@4meAndyou I'm with you a 100%. Thanks for commenting.

HappytoTalk · 61-69, F

@4meAndyou i truley believe both parties, the married person and the affair partner are to blame 100% for their part in the situation.. saying they didnt mean to hurt anyone..or they were there for each other or what ever dribble they come with us utter Bulls**t.
There is absolutely no excuse to cheat , its a choice.. its a cowards act.. there are women( i say women because satisticly speaking its more women) who want the married man to leave because they catch main feelings for a taken spouse.. and they try their hardest to break up the marriage..only 3% of men do leave.. so these stupid women keep the affair going in the hope they are the exception to the rule..and waste their lives and cry the hardest when the married man dumps them when the wife finds out.

4meAndyou · F

@HappytoTalk My second ex cheated on me with..well...I just call her the fat slut. I filed for divorce immediately, and said a very sincere prayer that she, too, would be cheated on and abandoned by her husband with a little baby, as I was. My prayer was answered.

SW-User

@HappytoTalk That's right. I agree with you 100%. That's really messed up that your second ex cheated on you.

HappytoTalk · 61-69, F

@4meAndyou love hearing when " how you got them is how you lose them" stories!!!