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Update: My husband said we can get a dog when our child (who is currently still in the womb) is NINE or TEN. 😭

Like… excuse me??? That’s basically a lifetime from now 😂

In all fairness… I get it. We really don’t need a dog right now. Between everything going on and the fact that we’ll have a newborn next spring, adding a puppy to the chaos probably isn’t the best idea. I know he’s right.

But still… I just want a puppy 😭🐶
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Cigarguy · 41-45, M
Whoever is being rude to you has me blocked but don't let them get to you. There are many myself included enjoy your post and joy for your upcoming baby! Keep sharing your story it's refreshing to see
TiaRose · 26-30, F
@Cigarguy thank you!
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Take care of the baby first by all means. Yet waiting ten years is a very excessive time to get a dog.

Reasons to Consider Getting a Dog Earlier

Companionship for Children: Dogs can provide great companionship for children and teach them valuable lessons about responsibility and empathy.

Training Opportunities: Training a puppy can actually coincide with a child growing up; it helps establish routines and can foster responsibility from a young age.

Bonding Time: Having a dog can create family bonding time, as everyone participates in walks, playtime, and training.

Considerations Before Bringing a Dog Home

Time and Energy: Dogs require a lot of attention, especially in the early stages.
Space: Consider whether you have enough space to accommodate both a growing child and a dog.
Allergies or Health: Ensure no family members have allergies to dogs.

Ultimately, it’s all about finding the right balance for your family.





Waiting until age four to get a dog is generally more reasonable than ten years.

Considerations for Getting a Dog at Age Four

Developmental Readiness: By age four, children usually have better coordination and understanding, making them more capable of interacting safely with a dog.

Teaching Responsibility: This age can be an ideal time to begin teaching children about pet care, such as feeding and grooming, under supervision.

Social Interaction: Dogs can help with social skills; playing with a dog can promote empathy and develop a child’s social instincts.

Energy Levels: Both young children and puppies have similar energy levels, often leading to playful interactions.

Key Factors to Keep in Mind

Safety: Ensure that the chosen dog breed is good with kids and manageable for your family's lifestyle.

Time Commitment: Evaluate your own readiness to train and socialize a puppy alongside caring for a four-year-old.

Four years old often strikes a good balance where both the child and potential pet can benefit from each other.
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
Babies that grow up with dogs will have an awesome bond for baby and dog.

Check some videos on YouTube for this subject.
RedBaron · M
Isn’t it more important to make sure you carry and deliver a healthy child first before thinking about pets?
TiaRose · 26-30, F
@RedBaron of course.
You need to stop and just get the fœtus past the danger time, then--after being born--get the child to 2.

You are spinning way out of control.
@TiaRose And it is not a done deal.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@SomeMichGuy so what? women who miscarry in the early stages before they’ve told anyone then have to deal with the loss as if it were a shameful secret. that culture is so messed up.
TiaRose · 26-30, F
@Fallflower thank you!!!!
Familygirl · 46-50, F
Is your husband in charge?
dpoet · 36-40, M
watch videos of dogs attacking babies. you will change your mind rather quickly
ShenaniganFoodie · 36-40, M

 
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