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Married Life

I been married 17 years on the 29th July and my god have we had our ups and downs and there were times when we both give up on each other but our bond was too strong to break completely.

We have loved and hated each other over the years and fell out of love with each other but when I married him I knew it was something I wanted forever and couldn’t walk away completely.

The brother in law said yesterday “anyone would think we have a happy marriage” and in our eyes we do but it’s not always been like that and we have had to put the work in and it’s paid off.

We wouldn’t be without each other now we been together nearly 23 years and known each other for 25 that’s a long time but this morning I laid in bed just looking at him and my heart melted.

His my soulmate and I couldn’t see myself with anyone else now.. we came, we conquered and we won because now I feel like we are in such a good place and I love him with all my heart.

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VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
Well done. I was with my first wife 19 years and it would have lasted but for tragic events. I'm glad you've come through the tough times and you still love each other.
So sorry to hear that!! @VirginMatchmaker
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@LittleTinks it's ok, that was 10 years ago and now we're poles apart and now I'm glad we split.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Congratulations to you both and wishing you a happy anniversary.

It was 47 years this year for us. I could have made parole by now? 🤔🤭
Oh wow yes you could of .. that’s truly amazing to hear that’s a long time 🤗 @Degbeme
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@LittleTinks Thank you. 🤗 She is a very tolerant woman to put up with me. 🤭
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Congratulations!! So inspiring to hear what’s the real truth and the commitment it takes to make it memorable!!
Beautiful, you could be describing my marriage. Happy anniversary for Friday.🍾🥂
Aww thank you 🙏🏻 @Mindfulness
TexChik · F
Oh it is a lot of work and sacrifice to keep a marriage not only together but loving and passionate. 18 years for me and I nearly ruined it our second year. Luckily I got him back and made myself stay in control (ptsd) for him. He was the best decision I have ever made. 😉
Oh I nearly ruined it a few times but ya know he never gave up on me … well done to you both I am so happy for you 🤗 @TexChik
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
That’s beautiful
smiler2012 · 56-60
by what you say it sounds like no matter all the trial and tribulations you can work through them . it a a love and bond you should be both proud of. as many throw the towel in too easily when things start going wrong. [twinkles]
We often look at each other and say “wow 22 years together” we have had some crazy times trust me and our heads have been turned but here we are still with so so much love for each other .. it takes times and energy to produce a great relationship, sadly some people just give up too easily! @smiler2012
Mktonght · 61-69, M
Your married life story is inspiring. True love is not an emotion it is a commitment to each other and the willingness to work through the tough times that ALL relationships will go through.
We have worked too hard now to give up on each other @Mktonght
Montanaman · M
That's how it's done. 34 years for us, 35 together and nothing on earth will come between us. Nothing and no one. 🤗💕❤️🌹
It’s so nice too see others work at their marriages as well 🤗 @Montanaman
This is awesome.. ! Very inspiring message here.. persevere, don't give up.. well done you two! 🤝
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Congratulations. Its not easy! Hees wishing you many more happy years.
32 for us x
Oh amazing 🤩 go you two 👊🏻🙌🏻💕@RubySoo
Mindful · 56-60, F
Thank you for sharing openly and honestly, congratulations! It is exactly true.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Congratulations on making it work. Happy Anniversary
Ontheroad · M
What a beautiful story... you two absolutely rock!
eyeno · M
[b]A rare breed indeed....,👍[/b]

Absolutely lol@eyeno
SW-User
Beautiful! Congrats
Fairydust · F
That’s lovely 🥰
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Dino11 · M
That's special.
Human1000 · M
Sound a nightmare.
Nope definitely not lol @Human1000
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32 years that’s amazing 🤩 .. so lovely to hear 💕@Stereoguy
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