Need Space
He keeps going from we're together, to we're friends. He says he wants to get his money together and explore life more before we settle into a relationship. I am not upset at that at all. But I am also over giving him continuous access to me. We are in a situationship, and tbh, I am not completely sold on him either. But I do like him as a friend and occasional lover. But I want to set boundaries. Since we are not together technically, even though sleep together, spend the night at each other's place, and go on dates regularly, I want to distance myself. I want to have a week to myself where I don't contact him at all. My question is do I have to tell him? I'd rather just do it. I don't feel like explaining myself, and quite frankly, I don't feel like I owe him an explanation. Especially considering the context of our relationship. What do you guys think? I just want to hang out with family/friends. And I have other things to focus on. I think withdrawing from this relationship is the best for me. It will help me keep firm boundaries in a relationship that has too much fluidity for my tastes.
