Talking stage but more emotional..guy admits to having a fwb and won't stop it. You:

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Act like nothing bothers you, bc it truly doesn't. He isn't yours yet.

Talk to him about it because it hurts you. He listens, but still doesn't put an end to it. You stay.

Everything in 2nd answer, above, except that you leave..because fuck that, you are the prize.

Wonder why I have made this oddly specific poll.

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Bexsy

Question. Is he local? Someone you're talking to in your vicinity? If so, asking to give up fwb if y'all get closer should be doable. Or is he long distance? If just talking phase, could be reason he doesn't want to give it up?

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Bexsy it was one of those chance things..recommended fb friend..perused his profile, loved what i saw..he msged me first..and spark spark spark..talked on the phone for hours..fireworks...never even did phone sex or any of that ridiculousness..he played guitar and sang for me, just..all the things. wanted to meet him..ofc i never make long distance official or anything..nor have i mentioned love or anything like that. but it just hurts, regardless of distance..we have a true connection and mind meld.