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Why is he doing this to me?

We broke up for close to two months but we still exchange text to each other more of sending regards and etc. I texted him since the afternoon and haven't gotten a reply past midnight. He was online but he just ignore my text. I couldn't take it anymore so I called and asked why he ignored my text but he could reply to others when he's online? He said he didn't check his phone. Are you serious?! Why is he doing this to me? I rather he be open and honest if he wants to cut things clean.
if you broke up, cut the cord and move one.. your only torturing yourself clinging to a small piece of hope
@Byebyebye123 I have been trying to but he still text me on and off and hang out and stuff. I thought I could deal with it with the text and going out not until when he decided to be cold again sometimes... I'm very confused :(
@justacloudaway Block him & clear him from all social media .. make him disappear and move on.. It will hurt! Don't belittle yourself as his second choice.
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The responses on the first question you ask in regards to this problem were all to be said. Leave the fucker alone and move on.

He's clearly playing with you, and you're allowing it to happen.
Gilhooly · 61-69, F
He's just lost interest in you, now the only thing you can do is feel it. The anger is about wanting to deny it and blame him. Fact is, he is free to do what he wants. I notice we tend to 'throw tantrums' at not being loved, it's an awful feeling but needs to be released by feeling it not avoiding it by hurling abuse at him- he does not have to even be honest or open if he so chooses....personally? I'd move on. his loss
SW-User
If you are ex why does it matter when or if he answers?
Goralski · 56-60, M
Good lord move on
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SW-User
The only way to move on ... cut all ties ... don't answer his texts ... Make a new fresh start without him... get completely over him before even thinking of being his friend in the future.. it's just torture if you continue this way unfortunately... all the best ...😊
Dan193 · 31-35, M
he wasn't feeling like talking to you at that point of time probably, you calling him out on that, will probably make him avoid your texts even more
You can't be this weak to depend so much on just anyone emotionally.
Come on! Straighten things up in that chaotic mind!
Energy galore comes your way. 🌞
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yea i feel u that sucks could be alot of things u said he was online with other users is it possible he found some one else
Primnproper · 56-60, F
I'd say it means more to you than him and maybe you should think about disengaging with him or you will never move on.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Maybe just stop it sounds like youre beating a dead horse.
amvanquish · 51-55, M
Move on and leave him behind.
SW-User
Perhaps you should be the one to cut things clean, to protect your own heart. You're the one still capable of being hurt. It sounds like he's moved on and couldn't care less. 😞

 
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