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Should I get back together w my ex?

We didn't end on good terms but I saw him today & we had a really good time together. I realize how much I miss him now. I just don't want to be one of those dumb bitches that constantly breaks up & then gets back together w her boyfriend
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OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
I think once you have been dating you will almost always have good feelings towards the other person, there is a reason why you were together. It is perfectly natural if things ended on fairly good terms and some time has passed to run into each other and get along easily. The problem is (I think someone already said slippery slope) when time passes people naturally remember the better times and not the more challenging or bad times. People in general want to feel happy, so we are naturally not going to hold on to thinking of something bad when we have at least a few good times we shared with a person. But there was a reason they are now an ex and you broke up.

I feel I have been fortunate in that for the most part ladies that I have once dated I am friends with to some extent, mostly more distant now, but a few I still keep in touch with from time to time. I would encourage the seeking of a 'friendship' and not anything more intimate. Maybe it will be again, but as someone also said about, you are the person who knows the whole story.