I think once you have been dating you will almost always have good feelings towards the other person, there is a reason why you were together. It is perfectly natural if things ended on fairly good terms and some time has passed to run into each other and get along easily. The problem is (I think someone already said slippery slope) when time passes people naturally remember the better times and not the more challenging or bad times. People in general want to feel happy, so we are naturally not going to hold on to thinking of something bad when we have at least a few good times we shared with a person. But there was a reason they are now an ex and you broke up.

I feel I have been fortunate in that for the most part ladies that I have once dated I am friends with to some extent, mostly more distant now, but a few I still keep in touch with from time to time. I would encourage the seeking of a 'friendship' and not anything more intimate. Maybe it will be again, but as someone also said about, you are the person who knows the whole story.

It makes no sense to do something you consider dumb. It makes even less sense to rekindle a relationship just because you miss him and based on some time together.

It depends why you broke up. If it was because of something he did ask yourself will he do it again ....

Then don't date him exclusively. Keep your options open.

No! I did that mistake, we married and few years later we divorced!

But by saying that you limit yourself to potential happiness?? Or heartache. Whichever lol

Figure out why you broke up . Was it something serious or petty ? Then move slowly ...try a few dates , leave sex alone for now , and see if it's working or not . And you need to have a valid answer ready for him as to why you broke up in the first place . He will want to know what not to do .

Get back only if he doesn't wear pink shirts and doesn't support Philadelphia 76ers

No. ex not current for a reason

give it a try

Nope

No

Slippery slope.

Dont be one of those that constantly breaks up with new people because you got some problems. You solve problems, you do not run from them.

if he was violent or a cheat or treated you with disrespect then a big fat NO

Usually, the people who get back with their exes are dumb bitches. 🤣Especially for those reasons.

To be honest, this is a question which can only really be answered by you. You are the only one who knows if it seems good and right for you. Without knowing the intricacies of your situation, no one else can really advise you properly.