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Miram · 31-35, F
It makes no sense to do something you consider dumb. It makes even less sense to rekindle a relationship just because you miss him and based on some time together.
OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
I think once you have been dating you will almost always have good feelings towards the other person, there is a reason why you were together. It is perfectly natural if things ended on fairly good terms and some time has passed to run into each other and get along easily. The problem is (I think someone already said slippery slope) when time passes people naturally remember the better times and not the more challenging or bad times. People in general want to feel happy, so we are naturally not going to hold on to thinking of something bad when we have at least a few good times we shared with a person. But there was a reason they are now an ex and you broke up.

I feel I have been fortunate in that for the most part ladies that I have once dated I am friends with to some extent, mostly more distant now, but a few I still keep in touch with from time to time. I would encourage the seeking of a 'friendship' and not anything more intimate. Maybe it will be again, but as someone also said about, you are the person who knows the whole story.
TexChik · F
Figure out why you broke up . Was it something serious or petty ? Then move slowly ...try a few dates , leave sex alone for now , and see if it's working or not . And you need to have a valid answer ready for him as to why you broke up in the first place . He will want to know what not to do .
Usually, the people who get back with their exes are dumb bitches. 🤣Especially for those reasons.
SW-User
[c=#7700B2]Think it over. Why did you break up? What wasn't working? Was it because of him, or because of you?[/c]
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
But by saying that you limit yourself to potential happiness?? Or heartache. Whichever lol
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
It depends why you broke up. If it was because of something he did ask yourself will he do it again ....
Jentlemen · 46-50, M
Get back only if he doesn't wear pink shirts and doesn't support Philadelphia 76ers
if he was violent or a cheat or treated you with disrespect then a big fat NO
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
Then don't date him exclusively. Keep your options open.
fenomen02 · 41-45, M
No! I did that mistake, we married and few years later we divorced!
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SW-User
No. ex not current for a reason
USER42 · M
Slippery slope.
Shayama · FVIP
give it a try
CrazyRay · 41-45, M
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Dont be one of those that constantly breaks up with new people because you got some problems. You solve problems, you do not run from them.
SW-User
To be honest, this is a question which can only really be answered by you. You are the only one who knows if it seems good and right for you. Without knowing the intricacies of your situation, no one else can really advise you properly.

 
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