It depends on the caliper of the conversation, whether it be platonic and friendly, or supportive and counseling, or distant and affable.
It also depends of the peopl them selves, how they present them selves to me.
Take you, for instance:... in all honesty,, with no equivications, nor trying to seem forward or flirtatious,.. an online corresponding with a person of your spirit and soul, or your caliber, you heart, and mind has encouraged me to focus on you and you alone.
Most of the other people; be they male or female; young or old, I would invest as much attention, time and energy in to them, bas I think they may have invested into me
But not so whith a person that posseses a vocabulary and a wit and a wisdon and an intellect as youra
You are, different, you are unique, you are refreshing, and emotional and and passionate, and compassionate, and real and raw, and I do cherish what few, fleeting, ever so distant correspondences we may share.
Thank you Carrissimmi for being my friend.
Every your friend, G.
(P.S. I'm still planning on building me a hippiemobile, and I when I finish it I'ma come and see you, maybe get a cup of coffee.)