Men: How Many Women Can You Handle?

I don't mean physically, but if you start talking with a woman online, and you enjoy your conversations, then another one, then another, so that you are conversing with several, and you keep contact with all. Keep talking with all, how many can you keep up with, and will you start to become attached to one (or two) as time passes?

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Danez · M

I like talking with many. And yes it's possible that an attraction can be made whenever you talk about things that aren't generally or openly shared with most other people. It can make you feel special that something personal has been shared with you and entrusted to you. And feelings can development.

Carissimi · F

Right. Trusting each other brings that connection. @Danez4u:

Danez · M

@Carissimi: yes it happens often with psychologists, counselors, and even priests

Danez · M

Being listened to and understood is quite becoming

Carissimi · F

@Danez4u: It usually happens without being aware it's happening. It sneaks up on you. However, if you are aware of the process, you can create some distance to prevent attachment.

Carissimi · F

@Danez4u: Being listened to AND understood without judgement is like finding gold. It's like water to a parched throat or a dying plant.

Danez · M

@Carissimi: that's so true.