Should I give up on the relationship?

Me and my boyfriend of 9 months keep arguing over immature actions like giving the silent treatment when one does something that upsets the other. It leads us to break up on several occasions. We tell each other to change buy we can't seem to do that. I love him very much. I care about him and my family has gotten used to him. This is the first time I have fallen in love with someone and I don't even know if it's worth it. Because he gives up easily. He doesn't do anything to try and win me back. He just says okay and goodbye. I always end up texting him again and trying to make it work. It's hard to let go. And I am so conflicted.

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Imagine yourself in this situation in 10 years with 3 kids and financial issues and no sex. Does it sound like fun? If you aren't starting out right it can only get worse from here. The fact that he doesn't reach out to you says a lot also. Think about it.

LaFemmeAmelie · 31-35, F

if it's not working out now, it's not working out in the future. cut your losses, I say

Stark

If he doesn't care now...what makes you think he'll care later ? The relationship is clearly one sided

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

That emotional disconnect happening so often in your relationship is a very bad sign.

malizz · 70-79, M

Time to let him call back if he is really into it.

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alan20 · M

There's nothing as annoying as the silent treatment. Try improving communication. Just chat!

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