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If your ex texted you "I had a dream about you"

Would you text them back? Gosh I feel like I should ignore him but I'm so tempted to know what it was !!😵
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I'll text back.
I have a dream! and proceed to copy and paste Martin Luther King Jr's speech.
@jjoe01: right😆
@Starshine: Something for them to read... 😂
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
Some people know just how to
pique your curiosity and get you to let your guard down. Don't fall for it.

The three main techniques jerks use to get you back after they've mistreated you or dumped you:

Sending you an intriguing message that makes you curious enough to respond. (Example: "I just met someone who tells me he knows you very well." Or: "Your friend is talking about you.")

Sending you a message with words like EMERGENCY in the title.

Sending you a message that starts, "I'm leaving town for good..." This message says he has found a new job in _______ [a town at least 500 miles from where you are]. He "doesn't want to leave things this way" and begs you to meet with him "so I can apologize in person." If he can get you to meet with him and charm you into being friendly--which is easy if you believe you will likely never see him again--he can accomplish a lot. He will phone you again in a week or two telling you the job fell through and he's back. Now you are on decent terms with him again and he can ask you out.
SW-User
That's useful indeed thank you
krf336 · M
depends... do you want to get back together with him? are you seeing someone else? is it out of the blue or have you talked to him since you broke up?

I have used that line on ex's, and aquaintances a few times....
krf336 · M
I made something up that sounded like a believable dream...
SW-User
Ok thanks for being frank here
krf336 · M
your welcome... no reason to lie, I don't know him so I don't owe him any bro. code wingman support.

but it could be completely different for him.
SW-User
yeah i had a dream about you too - except my dream was a nightmare cause it was about you
SW-User
Haha
I would send this back😡🖕🏻
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Starshine: 😲🙈
@MartinTheFirst: 😳
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
It depends….I’m on good terms with the only ex I’m in contact with, she’s a friend. If she said that I’d ask about what the dream was about.
On the other hand, if another ex texted me out of the blue, I’d ignore it.
SW-User
@Dragon56: good point!
I'm on good terms with two exes.. so i would probably ask about it but we weren't still friends , i couldn't care less.
It's probably all made up and just an excuse to get you curious enough to text back.
SW-User
You got a point there
@MissingNotes: Think about it. They could have the dream without telling you about it, if such a dream occured. The whole point of that message was to start a conversation.
SailorMarz · F
@AcidBurn: me @ you if we become exes
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Thats too much
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Benny5678 · 41-45, T
I've used that line
SW-User
when it wasn't real and they asked you what it was about what did you tell them?
Benny5678 · 41-45, T
@MissingNotes: Depends what I wanted... I might say it was about us being together or something like that
SW-User
Ok thanks
SW-User
She's not allowed to text me 🙄
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@black4white: There's more to it than that
black4white · 56-60, M
@chasingMonday: Probably cuz you might get her back or maybe he is a bit more "controlling" but at the end of the day you have to admire the fact that he set boundaries...
SW-User
@black4white: I don't admire it, it's been a very upsetting thing for both of us. She was my best friend.
SailorMarz · F
I would already know what the dream is about & why they're telling me about it since i know them very well, ngl lol
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
I'd only hear that from 3/6 of them and ironically I wouldn't be interested in their opinions.
SW-User
Just say " Is it . how sweet. I would love to hear but got this thing which is actually important , Gotta go Bye "
FrostBorne · 31-35, M
I'm a more amicable person. I'd respond and ask what it was.
SW-User
sounds like something I might do and regret
SW-User
i dont have any ex.. but i think most people dont keep in contact with them.
SW-User
oldest trick in the book!
no.
SW-User
Really? 😂
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@MissingNotes: yup!
it's a good way to try and get back into your life..
the dream could be whatever he thinks will make you smile or blush!
Benny5678 · 41-45, T
@onestarrynight: Agree with this
Cinderella · 46-50, F
I would definitely be curious and text him back
SW-User
Don't encourage meee
Cinderella · 46-50, F
@MissingNotes: it's definitely not a good idea but I fall for my ex's traps
black4white · 56-60, M
He probably lying to see if this will re-open that door
SW-User
What if he isn't?
black4white · 56-60, M
@MissingNotes: what if he is... i mean you can make up a dream..hell you can have a dream about someone while you are awake... Are you wanting to get back with him? is that a possibility? are you seeing anyone else? because you know it will lead to hey can i just see you again for a lunch and next thing you know...you on your back :-) having a blast
SW-User
I'm single. My mind and soul say no but my heart and body say yeah. It's confusing
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
Sounds like a fish hook if ive ever heard one.

Also, no.
SW-User
Hmmm how so?
rupert · 41-45, M
That's inconsequential information. He's angling.
SW-User
I'd wonder how he got my number, but no. 😬
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Out of curiosity I'd want to know what it's about .
SW-User
I'm super curious 🙈
summersong · F
@MissingNotes: I really wouldn't want to know what my ex's dream was lol
labsrock · M
no, I'm not interested in her dreams anymore
SW-User
Really??
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YoMomma ·
😄😄😂
Bruja · F
No, but I'd probably puke.
Sicarium · 46-50, M
There's one I would text back. Because chump.
SW-User
Who's the chump here? 😂
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
i feel love in the air tonight!
SW-User
Ohhh 🙈🙈
caccoon · 36-40
Nah, but that's cause I don't give a single shit about his words or thoughts anymore.

 
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