How do you recover from a break up when you were the one to end it?

I was in love with my bf - I thought he was the one but he treated me very badly and I decided to make the difficult decision to go on a break/end it to make him realize what he was doing wrong. Instead he behaved worse - tried to make me jealous in every way possible. Add a bunch of models from tinder. When I am not adding anyone or trying to hurt his feelings in any way (or flash it in his face if I ever see someone new). I just feel very hurt that when he was with me - after his 10 year relationship with his ex - we kept it hidden for a while to not hurt her feelings. But with me after 3 years - he is even capable of hitting on the girls I work with..I should I cope and move forward. How should I take it day by day seeing as it was he hardest decision I had to make

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Trinitythree030303 · 31-35, F

Was in a polyamorous relationship, a three way relationship with my boyfriend C and my girlfriend T. I had been with T 2 years prior to adding in C, T and I had been in a polyamorous relationship before and had no problems with jealousy or being annoyed when our ex and I saw each other when she was at work. When C joined us she was constantly jealous and got sulky when we saw each other without her there, she gave me an ultimatum a month in basically telling me to choose between the 2 of them, I chose C, he and I are currently in a relationship with just the 2 of us.

The kicker? Before making me choose she didn't speak to me for 3 days, wouldn't answer the door when I knocked very concerned that she had done something stupid, and sent me the message telling me to choose through her mother.