Was in a polyamorous relationship, a three way relationship with my boyfriend C and my girlfriend T. I had been with T 2 years prior to adding in C, T and I had been in a polyamorous relationship before and had no problems with jealousy or being annoyed when our ex and I saw each other when she was at work. When C joined us she was constantly jealous and got sulky when we saw each other without her there, she gave me an ultimatum a month in basically telling me to choose between the 2 of them, I chose C, he and I are currently in a relationship with just the 2 of us.

The kicker? Before making me choose she didn't speak to me for 3 days, wouldn't answer the door when I knocked very concerned that she had done something stupid, and sent me the message telling me to choose through her mother.