That's a no for me

Friends, SWomans, countrypersons; lend me your eyes!

In your relationship, what is a hobby/interest that your partner has which you have no interest in sharing?

How do you cope with your own lack of interest?

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@CuriousGeorge - your creativity is like a muscle. If you flex it, it will get stronger. It doesn't matter if the drawing you created looks like an elephant... and it was intended to be a giraffe or if your short story is completely boring. Ask for an honest critique, learn something, and try to do better next time. It's doing what you enjoy that is important. As children we are rewarded. Our parents tell us "you're so smart" or "you're so creative" instead of telling us "I"m proud of you because you worked so hard." Most of us do not shoot out of the womb knowing how to paint the Mona Lisa or write Shakespearean sonnets these take life experiences, technical understanding, and a LOT of practice.