Honestly - Should always love yourself first and know who you are and be comfortable with it... If you can't stare at yourself in the mirror and be okay with it, then chances are that you can't stand others looking at you.... But if you are what your age shows then you have time and enjoy and find you, learn about the world around you, and see what there is in this world. You will probably find in a year or so there is a lot more and you will enjoy thing better and your current boyfriend may or may not be what you are looking for... If we are being realistic....