Do people still bother to court each other or is that too old fashioned ?

I like it. It doesn't seem to happen too often these days apart from in long-distance relationships. But it's nice to slowly get to know someone and let them into your life piece by piece. You feel like you have the bigger picture.

If you meet someone and jump straight into bed with them, you're starting to create feelings for someone you don't yet know you can trust. Not a wise move.