How many lovers do you currently have?

@Degbeme: I'd count your wife as 1.

It seems a bit weird not to count your wife as a lover, unless the marriage is rather bad. But considering you take her feelings into account, that doesn't seem to be the case. ;)

@TheSaint: yes, but have you ever heard that there is a difference between love and sex?

@TheSaint: True, but I'd like to refer to my earlier comment to explain why that doesn't seem to be case with Degbeme. I'm sorry that your marriage is loveless and sexless though, judging by your reactions.

@TheSaint: Judging by your defensiveness in response to a comment that wasn't directed at you, nor about the topic you started with, I have a strong feeling yours is.