Is it not okay to be way too available?

A friend who's the 'popular' guy in our college and has a girlfriend and a lot of female friends told me this- Never be always available for a girl. Don't always rush to help her. Never pick up all her calls or call her back instantly every time. Girls fall for the bad guys who treat them indifferently :|

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AliceinWonderland · F

treat someone the way YOU would want to be treated!

beingawesome · 26-30, M

@AliceinWonderland: What if I still don't get treated the same way I treat that 'someone'?

AliceinWonderland · F

@beingawesome: people will not always treat you well in life. that doesn't give reason for you to be a jerk to other people.

beingawesome · 26-30, M

I know that. I was just wondering if it hurts my chances if I always make it clear to a girl that she's important to me and I care about her :|

AliceinWonderland · F

@beingawesome: i don't know it just depends on the person. some people like to be treated badly and seek out the bad types of people but i don't think this is healthy for them.