Is it not okay to be way too available?

A friend who's the 'popular' guy in our college and has a girlfriend and a lot of female friends told me this- Never be always available for a girl. Don't always rush to help her. Never pick up all her calls or call her back instantly every time. Girls fall for the bad guys who treat them indifferently :|

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SW-User

Your friend couldnt be more wrong.Just don't be clingy and show her your love like a man

beingawesome · 26-30, M

@ZaybGOTHLING: I think I did everything right for a girl and that still got me nowhere. Maybe I was always available for her. I don't think I was clingy though. I feel insecure and I'm wondering whether I'm okay being me or I need to change myself :|

SW-User

Being there for her was so not problem. It must be something else like lack of compatibility. You should ask them what they like, what they're interests are and fullfil their needs. I know I like to be dominated so if a guy is too nice to do that I'll lose interest in him.