Is it unforgivable if your bf spits on in a public place you because he thinks you cheated on him?

Would this be any better in a private place? Abusive out of control behavior should never be acceptable anywhere.

When you use the word "forgive" it implies this is an emotional and/or spiritual decision dependent on how good and kind your heart is. Actually, it needs to be a simple straightforward decision in favor of your safety and well being, not a test of your compassion or Christian morality. Sick behavior should be outside your limits.

Depends on if you actually did cheat on him

Aside from this obviously abusive act, I am sure that a person who would react like that about anything is not suitable for any relationship. Do you really want a hot tempered pathologically jealous man in your life? Please don't say he really isn't like that; people are their behavior. If you continue, expect more of the same--or worse.

spittin is off limits, regardless of situation. thats just freakin nasty.

I'd consider it unforgiveable, yes. Doubly so if it's a false accusation, but either way, it's a red flag indicating a willingness to exceed public limits with aggression

Spitting on someone I think is actually considered an offense.

Spitting on you for any reason is assault and abusive. No forgiveness. Let him go.

absolutely unforgivable.

Thats just disrespectful on every level. I could never forgive this behaviour

Yes.

He wouldn't be a BF if that person had the common sense, to be with such a guy

Well if you did cheat on him it could have been worse

i would never have a boyfriend who spits on me. that is horrible.

That is disgusting and abusive behavior. Don't put up with that

Yes, that should say ex boyfriend. That's disgusting and means he doesn't respect you at all. It's basically saying you're a piece of meat that should obey him.

Totally unforgivable .... horrible....

Dump this guy -- and fast!

Id say that it was a dick move on his end.

Time to dump his ass