deademostrawberry · 26-30, F
Magenta · F
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@Magenta: I don't think for the deep hurts we ever get completely over it, but learn to manage and live with it. I know the more I don't focus on it, the less I hurt of course. It comes less and less, but I don't believe in dwelling on it. We cannot move forward that way. Then when we find a new someone, it takes the pain away from the other. Each heal in their own time.
Magenta · F
LadyGrace...I don't think we do either, if we were truly bonded, it remains a part of us. It does lesson with time, thankfully. I hope. It's not happening much yet.
A new someone is not for me. I have NO desire and people are not replaceable, I don't replace. :-)
A new someone is not for me. I have NO desire and people are not replaceable, I don't replace. :-)
@Magenta: I hate to hear that, as you deserve to be happy with a good companion. However, I'm just about at the same place you are. I'm not so sure there's anyone out there, but trying one last time. It would be sad to pine over someone the rest of our lives that obviously was not right for us. I refuse to do that. I don't believe anyone is worth that. Especially when they did not value us. I'm glad we valued ourselves enough to get out. It would have never worked.
Depends on how long we were together, how invested i was, how much i liked them, etc
i bounce back pretty quick in most cases(bad as that sounds), but tend to take the time to work on and repair myself so that whatever i get into next isn't sabotaged because of the baggage.
i bounce back pretty quick in most cases(bad as that sounds), but tend to take the time to work on and repair myself so that whatever i get into next isn't sabotaged because of the baggage.
Truth @revenant:
Magenta · F
hunkalove... Very special. 💕
SailorMarz · F
KaskadingKoquette · 36-40, F
Depends
Goralski · 56-60, M
Days perhaps even 4
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
*shrugs shoulders* Ida know, I'ma bout ta to find out my wife is packing as I type to leave me.
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
Varies.
SW-User
My record isn't great when it comes to that. I've only ever cared a lot about one person and it took me a few years to recover.
@CallMeDex: completely understandable, I always catch myself doing the same - like they say what doesn't kill you makes you wiser
Thanks for your honesty
*it helped me feel normal
Thanks for your honesty
*it helped me feel normal