At what point have you earned the right to pass Judgement?

I have been messaging with someone on here about a relationship matter. Does 3 messages count?

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Peaceful · F

Judgment? Or are they asking for guidance? It's a pretty big difference.

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@Peaceful: Really. Do you think that people here are looking for guidance? Most are looking for sympathy or an avenue to vent. I am okay with that to a point but when the discussion becomes to an obvious solution, it is dragged back into "ohh you would not understand"

Peaceful · F

@Hanging2: I think most on here are looking for compassion and understanding. I only offer advice of it's asked. And I do my best to not judge anyone that comes to me.

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@Peaceful: You are a much more patient person than I. It is the fixer in me, see problem fix problem. It is my way of simplifying life into bite size portions that make sense.

Peaceful · F

@Hanging2: I hear you, but it's not our job to "fix". It's better to support and make people feel safe and not so alone.