do you consider a relationship " just friends" if a man pays for everything and wants to take care of you?!?!

I think it depends on your age and life circumstances. I have a male friend I worked with years ago. He's older than me and I'm not exactly young. We meet for lunch every month like clock work. In all these years, he has NEVER let me pay the check. When I offered he would push my hand away. We are purely friends. I bring something for him and his family each time now-- a plant, a box of candy. The idea that if a man pays he is entitled to something sexual is foreign to me but that's a generational thing I believe.