would you get irritated if someone pm you?

not irritated, but at the moment slightly overwhelmed, usually prefer people interact with me a bit in the Q&A first, or to observe them interacting with others a bit so i can see what they're like some.

Just depends on what they say and how they say it. Mostly I like to respond back and forth with someone in some questions and figure out what they're like before I pmed them or they pmed me.

Most PMs go into other requests so I don't see them for ages, people probably get annoyed with me