Is it reasonable to expect your husband to do things for you that they wouldn't do for anyone else

or is that asking too much?

I was just having a conversation with a friend and she thinks that's unreasonable, but isn't that what happens when you're in love? You do things for them that you ordinarily wouldn't. Isn't that how you show that they aren't like the rest of them? Or am I way off on this?

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

if you think they owe it to you, your relationship is going to turn real ugly real quick

VioletRayne · 36-40, F

@MartinTheFirst: I never said anything about being owed anything. I think it's just a sign of being in love. If someone won't go out of their way for you but claims to love you, they are lying. I have never seen a person in love that wouldn't do everything imaginable for the person they love.