Is it reasonable to expect your husband to do things for you that they wouldn't do for anyone else

or is that asking too much?

I was just having a conversation with a friend and she thinks that's unreasonable, but isn't that what happens when you're in love? You do things for them that you ordinarily wouldn't. Isn't that how you show that they aren't like the rest of them? Or am I way off on this?

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SW-User

If he wouldn't do them, he wouldn't do them. Why should being someone's husband mean he has to? Boundaries should be respected especially in marriage.

VioletRayne · 36-40, F

@Shadows: Yes, there are boundaries. If youve been with someone long enough you know their boundaries. They don't have to do anything, but they shouldn't be running around talking about they love you either.