My crush told me I gave up too easily :|

She told me the conversation went like:
Me: I just want to say that I love you.
She: No, I don't feel the same way about you. Sorry. But you're my best friend.
Me: Oh okay. I'm cool 😎

She told me I just gave up. I didn't show enough interest. I didn't make her feel special. "That's how girls develop feelings for a guy, dumbo" :|

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nonsensiclesnail · F

🤔 that's .... she sounds like she might be a lot of work.

beingawesome · 26-30, M

@Discombobulatedbunny: Yeah. She's a close friend. I asked straight up and her exact words were "I don't feel the same way Akhil, sorry". What am I supposed to do after that, pester her?

nonsensiclesnail · F

Allow her to miss out on you until she either matures or, well, forever. Love is a give and take, but she sounds like a sponge. Find a new love. @beingawesome:

beingawesome · 26-30, M

@Discombobulatedbunny: I'll try to :) Thank you :)

nonsensiclesnail · F

@beingawesome: still, I'm sorry. This is quite heartbreaking.

beingawesome · 26-30, M

@Discombobulatedbunny: To be honest, it didn't affect me much and I don't know why. It should have, right? I love the girl and she was the first girl I ever told "I love you" to. Maybe I don't have extremes of emotions. And I told this to her immediately after she said no. I told her I didn't care much as long as it didn't make our friendship weird :|