Do guys care if the girl pays for dinner/the date?

Yesterday my boyfriend drove down for the day (we live 3 hours from each other) so we went out to breakfast, went into the city, and then later went out to dinner. Since he drove down, I told him I'll pay and he tried to argue it, but I insisted. Do guys actually care about not paying?

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SW-User

I think girls shouldn't always expect the guy that pay, it should be a give and take. However I have had 2 guys get seriously upset with me when I have offered to pay, but I just don't think it should always be on one person.

chrisCA · M

@NewBeginnings77: Did that raise red flags for you?

SW-User

@chris62ca: A red flag because they got upset? I wasn't really sure why or what to think about it.

chrisCA · M

@NewBeginnings77: Yes. I suppose it depends on how upset they were.

SW-User

@chris62ca: Both seemed really offended and insulted. Told me to get that shit out of there and not to ever fucking do that again.

chrisCA · M

@NewBeginnings77: I would have ran.