Do guys care if the girl pays for dinner/the date?

Yesterday my boyfriend drove down for the day (we live 3 hours from each other) so we went out to breakfast, went into the city, and then later went out to dinner. Since he drove down, I told him I'll pay and he tried to argue it, but I insisted. Do guys actually care about not paying?

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StepDad2 · 36-40, M

It doesn't really matter who pays the tab IMO once you're in a committed relationship. Everything in the relationship is reciprocal at that point.

Obviously if paying for the meal is a financial burden on her that would be a different situation altogether.