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Hotel bars are prime. I actually feel guilty going in them without my wife.
Just go down there and drink. Someone has to be just as lonely as you are.
Just go down there and drink. Someone has to be just as lonely as you are.
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@Kindheartedguy: Its not a big hotel and not in a busy area. I'm working nights shortly too :(
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Is there a target nearby? :-)
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@Kindheartedguy: not in the UK
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Are you the type of guy who is always looking for a girlfriend (longer term) or a one night fling?
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@Kindheartedguy: long term never had a one night fling
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Change your focus. Women are no longer objects to be considered candidates for girlfriends. They are all women.
Treat them all with respect. Make them laugh. Smile a lot.
Then when you get used to that... start asking a lot of them for coffee. You'll get rejected a lot but you might find one that says yes.
Get relationships out of your head though. It's poisonous.
Relationships happen. You don't find them.
Treat them all with respect. Make them laugh. Smile a lot.
Then when you get used to that... start asking a lot of them for coffee. You'll get rejected a lot but you might find one that says yes.
Get relationships out of your head though. It's poisonous.
Relationships happen. You don't find them.