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Who was your first BF or GF?

How old were you? How did you become a couple?
It depends how you define it. There was a girl I spent a lot of time with in high school, one-on-one, but we never had sex or even kissed or held hands. I think she even had a boyfriend. So I don't think that counts.

My first real girlfriend was in college. I was 22. We dated for about four months and had sex as often as possible, up to five times a day. So I define it as someone I am seeing regularly and having sex with repeatedly.
@NatalieB: Is that unusual? When my wife and I were younger, we had sex more times in a day than I could count. We would spend entire weekends in bed just screwing, only pausing to eat or use the bathroom.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@ShoesOfWanderingITMFA: I have no idea what is usual about how many times people have sex in a day, but I don't think most people do it that much. Just saying. :)
@NatalieB: And to answer the rest of your question, I met my first girlfriend at a party.
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
i was 18 he was 15, met on fb ..honestly mightnt of dated him if i knew he was 15.. but with all the facial hair he looked 20 some..oddly one of the last things we both asked was our ages...odd relationship overall
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@whateverhappens: that's odd and scary. Good job getting away from him!!!
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
@NatalieB: yup lol one of the best decisions ever made
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@whateverhappens: good for you! Keep making those good decisions! :)
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
She was a cute, athletic but somewhat curvy black chick. I was 18 at the time, so was she. Met through a mutual friend, hit it off after knowing each other a few weeks.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@UndeadPrivateer: that's crash and burn :/ Hope it was fun while it lasted!!
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
Indeed it was, the aftermath was much less so.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@UndeadPrivateer: Yeah. Even when endings are as good as they can be, they're not really good. :/
I was way in my 20's being a late bloomer. I had offers all along, both boys and girls. Even before knowing what to expect from a relationship. Anyway it's way back in the past. But my first relationship was a boyfriend.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@SapphicHeart: things work out don't they?

And you're welcome :)
@NatalieB: Things usually do, dear. With time.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@SapphicHeart: I hope so. I want things to work out. :)
ScrewThisImDone · 26-30, F
High school. I was almost fifteen, he was almost seventeen, still my longest relationship to date.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@PearlRose: I'm sorry. But I'm glad you found that out before you married him. *hug*
ScrewThisImDone · 26-30, F
Weird thing is I got over him a lot more quickly than I thought I would after that second break-up. He ended it the first time because he turned 18.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@PearlRose: I'm glad the pain didn't last too long.
High school. I was sitting in the cafeteria​and she sat on my.lap and said I was hers. 👍
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@Tegb1: crazy hot always helps. ;) Unless she was both hot AND crazy. Lol :P
@NatalieB: nah straight A girl with the looks.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@Tegb1: mmmmm sounds like my kinda girl :)
8th grade. So 13? He was my friend on the bus as well as the paper boy. We were great friends.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@TwiddlerOfThumbs: holding hands on the bus is sweet. :)
@NatalieB: It was adorable for a whole week until we decided we were really just friends. He was a great guy.
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@TwiddlerOfThumbs: lol That happens. You think it's gonna be perfect because you feel an attraction AND you're already good friends. But it almost never works out that way. :P
SW-User
I'm 17 and I haven't had one yet =\
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@ThibaultYDL: it'll happen. Give it time.
Dhairya. 18. EP!
NatalieB · 18-21, F
I@Dewms: Dhairya....is that a name or a intestinal condition? :) lol
@NatalieB: LMAO it's her name, it means patience in her language 😺
NatalieB · 18-21, F
@Dewms: ohhhhh 😳 Hehe. Well I'm sure she was lovely if she was with you 😊
QuietSophie · 26-30, F
Catherine, my one and only :-) We've been best friends since primary school. We started to share a room at college and now we're inseparable 😌
SW-User
Still haven't had one yet :( I've had memorable crushes but they've never had happy endings.

 
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