Would you ever take back someone who cheated?

@sometimeslonelytoo: Cheating is cheating right? How can the situation differ?

Well if I contributed to a relationship becoming so poor that cheating became almost inevitable, I'd be more willing to forgive. Also there are different levels of cheating too, I believe.

@sometimeslonelytoo: Cheating can never be justified. There is always a choice.

Forgiveness, for me, implies that the act was wrong; not that it was acceptable. Also it is our having choice in all matters and being human that causes us to err, I believe. I take it you would never forgive what you regard as cheating?

@sometimeslonelytoo: No this is one mistake I dont believe deserves forgiveness.

We differ on that then :-)