Who else is in a secret relationship?

@Aidolovemostofyourthoughts: I'm not allowed to date anyone yet

@BlackBloodDemon: Okay. You can't even take one of your parents into confidence and let them soften it for the other one?

@Aidolovemostofyourthoughts: Nope, because they're in a marriage. The way their marriage works is that they both have to agree, and if one isn't agreeing with the other then.... Welp..

@BlackBloodDemon: I am so confused right now. :) But sorry then, I guess wait till you're 18 and then confess.

@Aidolovemostofyourthoughts: I can tell my mom, but the thing is she can't keep secrets from her husband (she's extremely honest with him).

@BlackBloodDemon: Yeah. But she would ease it for him, won't she? Help him accept it? As long as you can be responsible with the other areas of your life and can prove it to them, they could learn to respect your choice. :)

@Aidolovemostofyourthoughts: lol no 😂

When he found out my sister was in a relationship, he threatened to call the authorities on her bf. My mom couldn't do shit. He exploded, and he's still salty about it after 2 years.

@BlackBloodDemon: Wait. Is this a culture thing? Am I missing a point here?

@Aidolovemostofyourthoughts: He is from Greece (he moved to America in his early 20s, because he met my mommy in America :3).

@BlackBloodDemon: Aww he had a love relationship. Tell him that! Lol. But you've got to find a way of being honest I think. In the long run all these secrets just tend to hurt.

@Aidolovemostofyourthoughts: Greek dads are very protective when it comes to their children.... It can be scary sometimes. 0.0

@BlackBloodDemon: My only knowledge of Greeks is from the 'My big fat Greek wedding'. Lol. I think a lot of cultures are protective in a way that can feel suffocating.
You'll have to learn how to stand up to him.

@Aidolovemostofyourthoughts: I try to stand up for myself, but then he finds ways to puts me down.

@BlackBloodDemon: :(