Should I message a girl I met?

I met someone at a book club meeting last night and got on with her well. I think she maybe likes me too. She is really pretty and we have stuff in common. I don't have her number but I could contact her through a group social network of which we are both members. She is ten years younger than me and I don't want to come across as creepy. I'm due to see her in a couple of weeks at the next meeting.

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GlassDog · 41-45, M

Personally, I'd wait to see her at the next meeting. While women don't like men to faff around too long before asking, she'd probably be more receptive if you've just had a good, interesting chat, rather than to a message out of the blue. I know it's more pressure to ask in person, but she'd probably appreciate that too.

Burnley123 · 41-45, M

@GlassDog: it was the second time I'd met her last night though so I should probably send a (polite and non pushy) message saying it was good to see her.

GlassDog · 41-45, M

@Burnley123: Ahh, didn't realise it was already the second time. Yeah, I'd go for polite message too. Hope something comes out of it for you!