Can you please me?

@kaylapetrova92: I'm sure that he doesn't think he is self-centered. Self-centered people rarely recognize the trait in themselves until after they have lost someone because of it.

If you both have already cheated on each other, then you're both still growing and trying to figure out who you each are, and/or your relationship together isn't meeting all of your needs.

You may even be setting yourselves up to be co-dependent on each other in a cycle that will repeat itself.

If you really love him, and want to remain with him, then I strongly recommend that you sit him down and have a face-to-face discussion of how your relationship got to its present point, what each or your expectations are from each other, and your relationship, and the steps you're both willing to take to improve communication between you going forward.

Just remember, unless you are both equally committed to each other emotionally, physically, and intellectually, one of you is going to end up shortchanged and hurt.

@EnigmaticGeek: well he lives in Missouri I live in Pennsylvania but I'm working do I can save money to see him, cause he wasted his money on a older chick he didn't know well, I've been him for three years an yes i visited him doing those times.

@kaylapetrova92: Wow, long distance makes everything much harder. The only long distance relationship I was ever in was an open one. It worked well enough that she eventually dumped her other BF, relocated and moved in with me. She ended up becoming my 3rd ex-wife because she lied about wanting children before we got married, so you never now how things will turn out.

Anyway, I wish you the best of luck and much happiness. Just never settle for less than you deserve.

@TryingtoLava: I only met the dog once an yes if my boyfriend sad about it💔😢 I like dogs. An i feel bad for his niece I prayed for the dog yesterday.

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