I firmly decided to stop crushing on my crush.

Because that dumb guy didn't follow me back when I followed him on both Instagram and Snapchat.
Keep in mind that I'm an introvert and that I'm really shy and that I still tried to do something, which I never do. And he, the extrovert, social one did nothing.
Why does he spend the whole class glancing at me if he's not interested ? Sometimes I even see him searching for me or checking where I am or I'm going.
Ugh too complicated. THAT'S why I never had a relationship.

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firefall · 61-69, M

I have to give big props for taking action and trying to connect, that takes a lot of guts for an introvert.

God knows what he's thinking :(

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@firefall: thank you <3

SW-User

Unfollow him and see if he cares

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@MissingNotes: Hum...What if he doesn't ? Then I won't be able to stalk him

SW-User

If he doesn't then you know you should look somewhere else. The faster you move on the better. This stalking shows that you still care girl

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SW-User

She's anonymous for fuck's sake 😒

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@spongemunky: Because it's so much easier to talk when you don't know the people and when they are not in front of you. I can think before writing, I can say whatever I want. I'm not brave enough to say what's in my heart in real life, I don't have enough courage to be myself and to open up because I'm scarred of people. But when they are miles away, when Thzy're not in front of me, I feel a weight dropping from my heart and I can finally say what I want. You're probably not an introvert if you're asking this :)

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LadyGemini · F

Have you tried just waving at him or walking by and saying a quick hi? Or send him a message through Instagram or snapchat?

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@PinkPrint: waving and hi yup, sending messages never XD scarred !

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SailorMarz · F

Maybe he's trying to play it cool 🤔
One time i had a crush on this singer, he's famous but not that famous i guess & especially not then & i decided to snapchat him & tell him how great i thought he was & he ended up looking at my snap & didn't even respond 😭 Not even a plain "thanks"
I stopped crushing on him immediately LOL. Now i just think he's an awesome singer *shrugs*

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@SailorMarz: hahahaha, I don't have enough courage to do that.
Yeah maybe he's doing that...Whatever Idc anymore

SailorMarz · F

I wouldn't care either. Dudes putting in no effort whatsoever to let you know he may be into you. Forget him @ArwenPandora:

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@SailorMarz: That's what I'm saying XD
Good bye crush ! I'll find a new one soon enough x)

nonsensiclesnail · F

His not following you back does not make him an less interested. He probably likes to be chased.

rebelliousgal · 31-35, F

Crushes have an expiration date

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@rebelliousgal: Usually yes, this one is here since some time now

rebelliousgal · 31-35, F

@ArwenPandora: I hope everything turns out well for you

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ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@TheUltimateSaturn: and purposely doing a hair flip just to see someone sitting behind you ?

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