Can't contact the girl who chose someone else over me.

I have tried everything, and there's only one solution left I haven't done. I don't think it's right necessarily but, I'm running out of options and I can't move on. When my best friend was in a similar situation like this he convinced me to tell his ex that he was feeling depressed and I was concerned for his safety, he wasn't, to see is his ex still cared for him. It seems sleezy but maybe trying that with this girl would be the best way to understand what she's thinking cutting all contact. I don't know what to do, I can't move on without comming to an understanding.

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Teachocolate · 51-55, F

If she has chosen another one over you n cut all contact meaning she has gotten over you.I left my ex years ago after giving him many chances over something.He called me many times to talk,giving excuse to see me on my birthday saying he has ordered bracelet or necklace for me n insisted to pass it to me,sending dinner over to me,etc and even threatened to hire someone to beat up whoever dating me at that time lol..but once the love gone is gone.I still cared for him of course as we were living with his family for years just like a big family but I want nothing to do with him after that.He has hurt me too deep.