Can't contact the girl who chose someone else over me.

I have tried everything, and there's only one solution left I haven't done. I don't think it's right necessarily but, I'm running out of options and I can't move on. When my best friend was in a similar situation like this he convinced me to tell his ex that he was feeling depressed and I was concerned for his safety, he wasn't, to see is his ex still cared for him. It seems sleezy but maybe trying that with this girl would be the best way to understand what she's thinking cutting all contact. I don't know what to do, I can't move on without comming to an understanding.

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Funopenrelationship · 36-40, M

Work on yourself mate. None of us can look to anyone else to complete us. If that is the case check out religion. Despite people messing it up left right and center there is truths to be found there.
Last thing you want is to enter a relationship where you are dependent on your partner. A good relationship in my opinion is about offering value to eachother. Bringing eachother up! Not sucking value time and energy from eachother.
Check out ChaseAmante/RSD. Keep an openmind and be the best version of yourself you can be.
Spread good emotions. "As ye sow, so shall ye reap". Do unto others as you would they do unto you.
Life is a challenging journy. There are alot of opportunities. And people change. Some for better some for worse. Most not at all. But we all have a choice.
Best of luck