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Is my boyfriend's reason for dumping me dumb (brutally honest answers)?

I'm a very nice, polite and sweet girl and I don't get mad much and much agree with a lot of things to people. Some guys think I'm "creepy" for being way too nice and polite. My boyfriend who I was dating for only 2 months dumped me because I wouldn't be "honest with him. He got irritated and fed up when I agree with him with mostly EVERYTHING. Like when we go on dates I usually let him pick and I agree. He said I should choose for once and I don't have to like everything he does. He also got annoyed when I agreed with him with everything. He was like, "STOP AGREEING WITH ME! For once would you DISAGREE with me?!" 
I told him that I wanna make him happy and it is polite to not make someone mad thank you. And he got so annoyed with me. I always compliment him a couple of times a day, I smile all the time and all that. He told me to not agree with him to make him happy and get got after me for sugarcoating the truth about something (It's personal) and he earned me if it happens again, we're over and we've had arguments about it. I told him politely, "It isn't polite to yell and we should be calm and happy. I told him to use proper manners and he just got very irritated with me. I also tend to let people run over me but I isn't wanna make them angry. My friends are very annoyed that I'm overly nice and polite. I always say, "Thank you for having this talk with me. I am delighted that we did." My boyfriend dumped me yesterday because I tend to agree and sugarcoat stuff.
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black4white · 56-60, M
your bf wants someone to discuss not just have an agreement all the time. Like its been said before you need a Master/Dom type of personality where your thoughts and ideas dont matter as they make all decisions and you just go along. Sounds like he is a smart man and knows what he is looking for in a partner and your traits happen to NOT be what he wants...such as life
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@black4white: but I've been so good to him but he said he wants to be challenge and for once wants me to disagree and thinking about being polite all the time annoyed the hell outta him
black4white · 56-60, M
@MissNiceGirl: being a partner is not about AGREEING on 100% of the conversation unless (Dom/Sub) type relationship and that is NOT what he wants.
btw..agreeing dont NOT equal polite/nice it does equal frustrations for some i see his point VERY clearly and most others will as well
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@black4white: I try to be a sweet as i can be but he just right then dumped me. He said his best friend and his girl has challenges and disagreements but they still love e's other and making up and he said he envies that and THAT'S the kind relationshop he wants but he straight up told me he can't have one with being with me. That shocked me when he said that.
black4white · 56-60, M
@MissNiceGirl: its houldnt...as he told you what he wants and looking for..no worries.. i am sure you will find someone that wants to dominate you...just use it as a learning process
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@black4white: thanks. I just don't like arguing and people getting angry