No, you missed something pretty crucial in social situations - honesty. Acting like that in social situations will make you seem like you're not really a person, almost like you're not real. You shouldn't agree with everything they say just to be nice, you're sort of distancing people from yourself that way and that never feels good to be on the receiving end of.

He told me straight up that if I can't be honest with him, then there is no point of continuing this relationship and I sugarcoated and lied to him. He said he tried to work it out but he said he needs a woman that is REAL and say her own opinions and disagree, no to keep lying or hiding stuff to protect his feelings. I'm heartbroken. I am astonished that I would get dumped. I'm a polite person. A few of my peers got annoyed when I butted in and said "Are you guys having a good lunch?

Sounds like you are very nice but maybe come across as too eager to please or desperate like

Um, It definitely sounds like you are too nice. It's okay to pick something that you want to sometimes. Then you can do what he wants the next time. Don't worry so much about making others mad. Some people are just angry to begin with, as soon as they get out of bed.

You're overly nice and you're passive. That gets really annoying after a while. It's like you're not your own person and it's like you don't have a personality. Start putting yourself first and your wants and needs and your likes and dislikes. You dont always have to please people. So stop being a people pleaser. Learn how to say no. I promise you if you start saying no to people, they're not going to die. It's OK to put you first. You're so focused on helping others and making sure that they're not mad, that it becomes overbearing. My sister and my brother are the same way and it's really annoying. This is coming from someone whose problem is being too honest, upfront and not being nice enough.

your bf wants someone to discuss not just have an agreement all the time. Like its been said before you need a Master/Dom type of personality where your thoughts and ideas dont matter as they make all decisions and you just go along. Sounds like he is a smart man and knows what he is looking for in a partner and your traits happen to NOT be what he wants...such as life

You should always just be yourself. If others don't like it then they can go jump!

You can do so much better is all I can say, and you know, my wife is also the same as you. There is a guy out there for you and as for these 'friends', time to walk away from them too. Its nice to see other people with tradtional values in 2017! You don't waste YOUR time with the wrong people!

Appearantly he feels insecure, because you are way too polite.. this is it, courtesy seems fake sometimes when it's excessive. And there are no two people on this world would really share the exactly same thoughts.. maybe you do agree to what he says, but there is gonna be something slightly different in the details on the topic, try and tell him your own thoughts, discuss it. Every relationship needs some sparkles to work out. He would feel annoyed maybe because he feels bland. Small changes are nice and needed when you are not one person anymore but two together. I know it's hard to change at once.. but try to let him know you are going to change first maybe ? Anyway I hope the best for you both xx

You're too passive. He wants someone who can challenge him. Find a guy who likes to be dominant instead of wanting to share.

That's his loss! Don't let them change who you are! If you are sweet be sweet, if you agree then agree. If you are polite than be polite...its not a problem with you but a problem with them!

No, I personally do not think so.
Someone who never shares their opinions, and is always so concerned with being polite and pleasant would drive me nuts.
There are things that are more important than being "polite" in a relationship.
It's so hard to get to know people when they never show their true feelings, thoughts and opinions. It's like trying to be friends with a diamond. Very nice and pretty, and they can make a nice accessory to wear every now and then, but that is it.
"Polite and pleasant" have their uses in every day life, but they don't make a person.

Men like a challenge. Think about it.

I can see how your behavior would become annoying after a while. Just try to be true to yourself and have an opinion about stuff. It's ok to have your own mind and speak it. You don't have to make an ass of yourself to do so :)

It sounds like he doesn't like you for a different reason and he made up that reason as he doesn't want to tell you the real reason.

Eh, he sounds like a feget anyway. And momma always said there's plenty more bears in the forest. ʕ´•ᴥ•`ʔ/

Sweetheart you need a master not a boyfriend, you are classic genuine submissive

If total acquiescence is not what he's looking for in a partner, it's not a question of it being "dumb". You're just not compatible, and better to know [b]now[/b] after only 2 months than for him to string you along and waste your time. Sure, some guys will consider him lucky to have had a "yes" woman, and likely you'll eventually encounter a fellow who prefers that: it will be a better "fit", relationship-wise.

You sound like a pleasant person to me.