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how would you deal with this cheating gf

she chated on you , and not trying to have conversation and aboden you like were nothing , and when you tried to talk she first amde stupid reason and then blamed everything on you and playing victims by saying how much you have yelled at her and blah blah blah
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Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Ignore her and move on
TheBatman · 26-30, M
@Nomar67: may be thats the option , i was idiot i got struck in giving justification and those were the fights of months ago
TheBatman · 26-30, M
First her reason were for break up she kight be lesbian , or we must think about future , as soon as i find out she has been chaeting this yelling scene came into the picture
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
I had a wife , now ex wife that blamed me for her affair . I packed her stuff and told her to leave .
TheBatman · 26-30, M
@Nomar67: that seriously helped me , may be i am just done , for argument we need two people , i never cheated , i was the loyal one always , the one who loved the most . sometimes i just dont understand women , at one point they show love and in a week time they are totally changed
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
That's right but it also applies to men . What helped me was that I bought the house several years before we got married .
TheBatman · 26-30, M
@Nomar67: do you miss her ? she was your wife you must have very lovable moment with her , doesnt it heart that how can she do this ?
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
I don't miss her . We were married only 2 years . Not long enough to build any good memories . She remarried a year after the divorce .
TheBatman · 26-30, M
@Nomar67: we were together for 2 years i am scared i might not be able to get along with other girl like her
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
It's a tough choice . Living with a cheater or moving on and forming a strong friendship with her . I am still friends with my ex .
TheBatman · 26-30, M
@Nomar67: well i am not , she just blocked me like i was nothing she said being in contact wont be good for us
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Maybe not right now but later in the future .
TheBatman · 26-30, M
well we broke up 4-5 month ago , she said lets be friend only once i said i am not your friend , and isaid how can i be a friend with a person who a lways cheated and never given me the respect she nevr told about me to her parents not even one friend , she didnt have the courtesy to atleast call me she just texted and wasnt not even texting instantly after6-7 hours so how could i be frien d with her but after 3-4 months when i thought my anger is fasing and i tried conatcing her she would just block me and sayin ,"you would yell at me " and wont respond , may be 4-5 months arent much . I do miss her thought she has always cheated but thats true aswell she was comfortable with em and i know her better than her mom we were so close , now i think 3-4 months was not much time
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
It took us five years after the divorce
TheBatman · 26-30, M
tbh even i am not ready as well to talk to her it just makes me angry again , but iwant her in my life as not gf bf but atleast as friend , now ithink 3-4 month wasnt enough
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
It's not . Sometimes it takes years