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Spoiledbrat · F
I actually have but I would not recommend it. If you're thinking about cheating it's most likely because you're not happy and feel stuck or don't want to part with your significant other . I'd recommend that you find out what is missing and try to mend your relationship or let go of your significant other because it's not healthy to hold on to something that isn't working.
Lonelyrose31 · 36-40, F
@Iamnolongerhere: what happened when u cheated ?
Spoiledbrat · F
Nothing bad. I should have just left though. I think I thought my marriage would improve over time but it didn't and I regret that I didn't address what was making me unhappy. I was more concerned with my son growing up in a broken family. I was young and I thought things would work themselves out in time but I was naive to think that. I wasn't happy period. I wasted my time and didn't give myself enough credit. I think it would have been okay for me to leave. @Lonelyrose31:
Spoiledbrat · F
By cheating I put the problems that I had on the back burner because I didn't want to face them. I didn't think I could change my husband. If I would have told him I was unhappy he would have never listened. I knew it then and I know it now because he still hasn't changed. And maybe he can't . Maybe he doesn't know how. Maybe I don't either. @Iamnolongerhere:
Lonelyrose31 · 36-40, F
Can I pm you ?
Spoiledbrat · F
Of course.@Lonelyrose31: