Would this bother you in a relationship?

Would it bother you if you were in a serious relationship with someone and yall got in a bad fight and temporarily broke up. Then you found out, while separated, they told everyone what happened and made you seem like an asshole, after y'all got back together? Would you still want to be with them even though everyone thinks you're a pos and the whole fight was your fault?

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th3r0n · 41-45, M

I would be pretty upset, but I would talk to (in my case it would be a her) about it and try to actually come to an agreement of sorts of how the story really was and have (her) tell the amended story to those people so that they didn't look at me so badly. Personally though, if I'm with someone I really care about I care much more what they think of me than what everyone else thinks of me.