Rule #1

And in my case no romance with your best friend even if he's hot that is no hugging him a little longer as if to be held, no touching the face, no reaching out for his hand just to touch it no romantic gazes. No slow dancing, no dating such as going to the pub after work..no hot and steamy fantasies ..and you said it no kissing...I'm trying my best to focus all of these stray desires solely on my husband alone....and replace romantic desires with brotherly love and affection such as a hand on the shoulder and a kiss on the cheek. And a squeeze of the hand and a hug like you would hug your beloved grandmother.