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Years ago it might have seemed exciting and erotic. At this point, It is sometimes a challenge to focus on my spouse's needs. Sure it might mean a bit of momentary excitement, but then what would be left is repercussions and hurt feelings. Even if you tell yourself, 'it's only physical, that's all', what about developing emotional attachments to someone else? What if you find a better lover?