I feel like I'm not really attracted/in love with my bf anymore?

I've kind of noticed that as our relationship went on, the less I was attracted to him. My bf is nice and treats me right, but I wondered if I was just in love with the fact of being in my first relationship, instead of actually being in love with him...

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GlassDog · 46-50, M

From experience, it's difficult to get the feelings back after you feel like this, although it's always worth trying.

Although it was interesting you talked about being less attracted, rather than how you feel about him emotionally.

KatieB · 26-30, F

I love his personality, we have the same sense of humor and everything...I just can't stand his hair haha, I'm not attracted to it

GlassDog · 46-50, M

Well, that's a good start. And maybe he'll get a haircut or change his style!