I know I'm bad for my wife. But I don't want to let her divorce me.

Is that sarcasim?

@Eyetrace: I read your posts. What do you think?

Yeah. Major sarcasim. I know I'm a pos. Well at least I'm not good for another person. But you don't need to be rude.

@Eyetrace: You are a complete asshole. You have 2 small children but get upset because your wife would leave you if you did drugs. You complain that your wife won't give you anal sex, and admit that you are with her because you don't want to deal with child support. Actually, more people should tell you what a POS loser you are.

And you look like Lurch. None of us is perfect deer. We can all go through eachothers posts. Why couldn't you keep your husband happy. Not enough bjs? A bj a day keeps the divorce lawyers away.

@Eyetrace: It is dear, not deer. Fyi, my husband is desperately trying to get me to stay with him. I filed for divorce, not him. And, sorry to disappoint you, but most people find me attractive. But good try.

Damn. I did change that one and my mind went. No, dear is like dear John. Duh deer is an animal only. What a donk. I was wrong to call you lurch. What didn't come to me earlier was the trans dude in Penny Dredful. I don't blame your husband for trying to stay with you. Divorce is expensive as fuck. Well good luck with all the swinging dicks that will be coming your way, since your so hot. I'm sure none of them will hurt you like your husband did, and you will find everything you are looking for.

@Eyetrace: You need serious help. There are plenty of decent therapists out there. Please see one. I appreciate your concern, but my bf is pretty cool. =)

Tried. Schedules can be a bitch. The talking can feel good. But it doesn't change who you are at the core of your person. It's not going to make me less of an addict or gerneral asshole. Just like you can change from being a bitter lost cause.

@Eyetrace: bitter lost cause? Lol. You know nothing about me. I'm actually pretty damn happy and successful. It sounds like you have some issues with projecting your feelings about yourself onto others. You should work on that. =)

And you should work on finding some makeup that doesn't make you look like a drag queen.

@Eyetrace: lol

Not every one knows their compatability before marrage. I am sure you met guys you realized wern't the ones you would settle for. Nobody is perfect, but nobody should be cyber bullied while they already do feel bad enough. They feel bad about it, but that does not make in not so. They realize they just are not the one. You never know someones story enough to just be on a pedistol. I believe they are sorry to some level for opening up about their guiltyness. Not many people have the guts to do that. @Laifu1

@Belle: Sweetheart, read his profile before you talk... He doesn't feel bad about anything. He is a POS. Oh, and you might want to work on your spelling. =)

K I can make a typo. Human/ tired. Idk your timezone, but yeah.. It happens. I am not a narsassis who pretends to be perfect every half second. People only worry about those things when they can't meet in the middle for any conversation. People never say it if you are speaking on their behalf. :)
You do not know me enough to really assume anything over a typo here, or there. No need to be overly passive agressive. I wish nothing bad. Perhaps they are numb to caring, but there doesnt seem to be much sense in worrying about what they do. Just hope they drop the addictions and can figure out what is best for their fam and health. I am sure there is peobably a lot of messed up things regarding their story, but it is their life to come to terms with. Just as we all have lives. I am sure you have seen hard times with past relationshops. -not to say they are a saint.@Laifu1

Don't worry about her belle. She is just bitter, and has nothing better to do then judge people and make typos her argument.

@Belle: I'm actually a nice person. This guy complains because his wife won't do anal (because it hurt) and he feels that he deserves it. He is upset that he can't do hardcore drugs. He doesn't care about his wife, but he doesn't want to leave because he will be inconvenienced. He also complains about watching his children. Please explain to me how making one sarcastic comment somehow becomes cyber-bullying???

@Laifu1: I'm just greatful that you took the time to read every post I have made. I'm starting to think I have a fan. 😘

Perhaps just levels progressing. I cannot say they are fair, and they should really have a talk and discuss leaving in a humane way. They have to provide for the kids even if they stay. It might be better for the whole set to not be together. Fate will take it's coarse I suppose. You seem to have a good moral compass. It just seems like it wont get anywhere in either cass. If only she realized in advanced they are not a good match. They both would bennifit from seperating in more ways than one. @Laifu1