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How can I ask a woman out with out freaking her out?

Let's say, I just met her.
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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Find an activity based on something you've discussed, then suggest that you two go do it together. Not a "date" but just finding something you can do together. Like if you've discussed homeless people and/or the current housing shortage, you could check out volunteer work with Habitat for Humanity and go help build a house.

The other way would be to ask her for help with something you know she's good at. Offer to take her to lunch if she'll come over one morning and take a look at your garden and advise you (assuming she's into gardening) about what to plant.
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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Christa13: So, for the younger folks, it would be just a simple text exchange:

Boy: How R U?
Girl: OK R U OK?
Boy: yeah wanna hangout?
Girl: OK send gps...

He then sends directions on a gps app to her and they meet.
Everything's cool as long as they and their phones stayed charged up.
Buddy1988 · M
@greenmountaingal:

But I'm not teen. I'm almost 30!
Buddy1988 · M
I'm old lol.