what's important on the first date ?

Respect, being polite and being yourself

NOT to feel like you're going in for a job interview.

Spending a lot of money.

Food.

Good chemistry and an openness and willingness to get to know each other

I agree, respect is a must...but chemistry is good also :)

Just be yourself, and let them do the same...

Sex

Try not to vomit at dinner

showing up

Closing the gap. Becoming comfortable with each other. Light touching, laughing, eye contact. Also sex.

Absolutely